He’s been off lately. He’s just had a bereavement in the family which has obviously upset him a lot. We have kids already but had planned one more in a few years. Mostly because I wanted it. Well I thought I wanted it. He went out this weekend and didn’t come home (he stayed with his sister so I know there’s nothing going on). He then broke up with me the next morning saying he hates his life, the kids are badly behaved (they can be a bit overwhelming at times but over all it’s manageable). He goes on to say it’s not me, he still loves me etc. so then a few days on we talk and he says he doesn’t want another child. I agreed that’s fine and he should have just said rather than acting all dramatic about it. After we talked I was just happy that everything was ok but now I’m having serious doubts about him. If he’s bottled that up for months and been acting miserably how do I know he won’t just get up and leave? How do I know he actually does love me and want to be with me? Feel a bit upset over this. He’s never ended the relationship before in all the years we’ve been together.