My Husband and I, (together 13 years) have separated. We have two young kids, age 1 and 2. He had been having an affair, I’ve known about it for a while and it’s taken me a while to work up the courage to tell him that its over. This relationship is all I’ve ever known, and I feel like because I have two children so young, I couldn’t do it on my own. It’s also taken me a while to get everything sorted out for life on my own. He left early this morning, and honestly, I have all sorts going through my head. He has said he is devastated and can’t believe he’s going to lose his family etc, one minute I think, do I owe it to my two children to try this again and see if it can work, and on the other hand I think, I’ll be fine, I just need to be strong and carry on. My family are on holiday just now, I haven’t told a soul. I’m a very private person as it is anyway, I need some words of wisdom from anyone who has been in this position. Thanks for reading.