So basically my partner of 10 years helped me to the car we share with our baby. He grabbed something from the gear stick as he put the car seat in, it was a small bit of paper and put it in his pocket. But the way he done was weird, so I asked what was that. He ignored me, so I asked again what was it, and he ignored it again. Anyway he shut the door and went back into the house, I've started driving and my head was doing 100. There has been alot of lying, cheating and sneaking around on his behalf but admittedly he hasn't- that I'm aware of for a good few years. Anyway I've asked him if it is a girls number on the paper because why wouldn't he just say, why would he act like that. He's hit the roof, for 3 days I have had the most abuse, telling me I shouldn't question him. I can't call him a cheat (which i never) which I suppose me asking if it was a girls number was implying that. He has called me every name under the sun, hasn't spoke to me for 2 days only to rant at me how I disrespected him. And I can't see what I did wrong. But I am struggling to see what I did? I was not rude, I did not accuse him as such nor have I gave in to any arguments. All I have said was "ok" He's then gone on to tell me men would slap me blah blah blah how I think I'm smarter than him. ( by me saying OK?) How i need to be sorry as he was just playing a joke on me, and I must be cheating if I accused him lol he was even up in the bedroom screaming rhe place down as if he was talking to me while I was downstairs in another room. He's really raging. He says I shouldn't question him and to keep out his business as I'm too nosey or I'm insecure.
Anyway the paper was nothing- it was left on the side.
This all started because I asked what was on the paper. I'm so confused.
What's your opinions on this ? Thank you