If you tell your DP (LTR) they are your soulmate and they don't reciprocate, what next? Something brought it up and he enjoyed joking about the topic, I didn't want to talk about it because I felt a bit ridiculed and I tried to steer it away but he asked me outright if I thought he was mine. I said yes. That was the end of the conversation. He has had opportunity to say it back but hasn't. If he doesn't believe in it, that's fine but why force the conversation in that case? He would 100% have known what my answer was before he asked. I'm devastated that we clearly don't feel the same way about each other when I thought we did. If he doesn't believe in soulmates why not just say that? But I've been left hanging and licking my wounds. Like saying I love you for the first time and not hearing it back. This isn't about if soulmates exist, my question is where do we go if we don't feel the same about each other? It feels very unequal all of a sudden.