I've just told my family. Told friends. Looked Into therapy. Called a mental health line and I'm determined to learn. Educate myself. Forgive myself and move on. One of his victims still struggles after 3 years. It's mental and emotional abuse I've suffered..
Want to hear some other people stories to process whats happened to me.
I got with an ex drinker 18 months ago. He's been verbally abusive and shifted blame onto me. Lied. Gas lighted. Trainagulated me with his ex and terribly hidden other women he was interested in getting attention from. I've seen him stare at other women right Infront of me.
He's punished me with silent treatment. He lies and never admits anythings him. He denys stuff. He has made the whole relationship about him. He controls the situation by blocking me or silence. Swears at me.
Has made me feel insecure about my hair and clothes. Tiny hints at how he'd like me to style myself.
Told me his tele was stolen but now it's clear he sold it.
Loosing money to get more was another.