So previously me and my boyfriend broke up after being together for 6/7 years this was because he was unsure for a long time if he wanted to be together and I'd had enough of him being unsure and I left. 6 months down the line we get back together and I move back in, months later I'm pregnant and now we have a 5 month old baby so now things aren't as simple as before. Getting married is something I would love to do, this is where I have a problem. If my bf didn't agree with marriage or see the point in it then I could understand and I'd just have to say fair enough and put it to bed BUT he actually does love the concept of marriage and has pondered on it. However this is the problem, all these years spent together I've made a house a home, given us a child, put my everything into this relationship yet he is still unsure if he can commit marriage to me? (His words he said he has commitment issues to marriage which makes him human) so this make me question our relationship in all honesty... what more could he possibly want? He wants to buy a house together so I asked him "how can you be unsure of getting married when surely buy a house with someone is a much larger finical and legally binding commitment?" His response was "well if we split up we've both gained because we'll both have a house and how is it a bigger commitment when marriage is something sacred between two people?"
Well that last sentence was enough for me, so another one of his reasonings is because it's a sacred commitment? And what I'm not worth that? That's what that says to me anyway?
He says "how can he want to commit to a wedding when we I question the relationship all the time?" Which I 100 percent believe he's gaslighting because the only time I question our relationship is around this subject because if he's still unsure about us the second time round even after a baby etc then surely it's just not meant to be is it?