I left my fiancé and took our 3 children in November. He turned his family against me, said I made him unhappy, I'd just had a baby and he said he only didn't dump me as I was pregnant.
I had been messaging someone (which turns out he knew as he'd snooped on my phone) on and off for a year or so. He was really just someone to talk to when I had fallen out with my fiancé. He knew he could be abusive and would say he'd help me if I wanted to leave him, but the messages were never sexual and never any photos.
I since started dating this man and he's lovely. He treats me well, makes me laugh and in contrast when he told his brother about us he said "good, she's a nice lass" when ex fiancé told his brother we were over he said to him "about time, I've always hated her"
Now ex says he's missing me and being a family the more time goes on, he can't sleep thinking about it and he can't bear if I got with this guy. He doesn't know obviously.
Do I give it a chance? But then I don't know.. I just don't. I do miss being a family.