I am in the process of saving up to leave what I believe is an emotionally abusive relationship, in the mean time I am trying to keep track of some of the things he says/does to me so that I don't become blind to it yet again. I need to stay focused on leaving for my children's sake. However I'm not sure if I am being unreasonable in this situation - I have been extremley unwell for a week, I have been seen in urgent care today and now have a prescription for antibiotics, but for the last four days all I have done is slept, I've had a fever on and off and sweating quite badly from it, I haven't had the energy to wash, I tried to get up last night and fell on the floor grazing my arm and knee, so I'm not denying that I did smell, but my partner looked at me in such disgust and said 'you smell like shit'. He has barely spoken a word to me in the past two days because he believes I stopped him going out with his friend even though I told him I'd actually prefer it if he did, and when he has spoken to me it has been to make comments that I'm not sure are meant to be hurtful or not. For instance he mentioned how much fun his friend had the night he didn't go (which felt like he was trying to make me feel guilty),this was completley out of the blue. He then said he wanted to go and see two old friends of his and said that they used to be very close, but the tone he said it made me feel like it was my fault they weren't anymore (there is a back story with one of these friends but I have never insinuated that he shouldn't see him). Then out children were playing and one said they were going to work, and he said oh great someone else can pay the bills for once. I do work part time and contribute, albeit not as much because I earn a lot less than he does but it just felt very hurtful. I'm not sure if I'm being overly sensitive and this is normal behaviour or of these are more examples of nastiness on his part.