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Lauracole · 17/04/2022 23:01

Hi so one of my exes friends added me on Snapchat last week, we’ve only met once 8 months ago and haven’t spoken since.

The first snap was just a hi,why did you break up kind of thing then nothing so I went off a friends advice to start a conversation the day after to try and find out is he just looking for gossip etc and it was a short and simple basic conversation but we did mention he’s working near where I work for 2 weeks maybe we could meet for a drink one day.

Few days past he’s not spoken other than commenting on a story of mine where I created an art piece of my bum and he mentioned wanting to see an uncensored version again no conversation since.

Do I read this as he’s a fck boy or should I give him the benefit of the doubt as he doesn’t seem to pop up and start any conversations with me so I feel he’s not interested but yet he mentioned going for drinks which leads me to believe he’s a fck boy.

Any advice please or ideas would be greatly appreciated thank you so much 😊

OP posts:
HollowTalk · 17/04/2022 23:12

You lost me when you said you created an art piece of your own bum.

Jossse · 17/04/2022 23:18

He sounds like he's fishing but not seriously interested.
Depends what you want really... he's not that keen otherwise he'd be messaging all the time

Lauracole · 17/04/2022 23:30

Haha sorry forgot to mention I’m an art teacher yeah I’m considering seeing if he actually does meet up for a drink and see where it goes but I’m not going to message him again so if he doesn’t message that’s obvious then he’s not serious right? Thank you for your reply’s

OP posts:
me4real · 17/04/2022 23:40

I wouldn'tve liked his bum comment, too sexual, but I'm after a nice wholesome clean guy next time.

I suppose if you're after casual sex he's your man.

He hasn't bothered to try and develop a rapport between you through conversations, or find out much about you.

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