Am I being over sensitive? When I was around 10 years old, my step father, wanted me and my older sister to sit on his lower back to give him a massage, not just his back but also his chest and legs, we also massage our mother, both with oils and top less. When I said about this to our mother recently she said we got sweets out of it and that there was nothing wrong with it. How I look at it is. I wouldn't dream of asking my children to give me a back massage because I see it as a couple thing. Our mother saw that my step dad done nothing wrong and worth ship the ground he walks on. He was an alcoholic that smash Windows and he treated his step children as slaves. His daughter and our mother's said that, discipline back then was acceptable, shouting in our faces and walking into bathrooms while having a bath, calling us stupid, slaming my older sister against the wall when refusing to do something.