I was seeing someone for a few months, I really liked him. We got on really well and had knew each other for several years prior and had always had a connection but due to me being in a relationship nothing had happened.
Things ended quite quickly. I am very close to his sibling and she didn't react very well to us seeing eachother. He wanted to tell people about us but I wanted to take things slower due to recently coming out of a relationship.
I thought I was feeling better until a few days ago when I unexpectedly seen him at a cafe (local to me). I was with my family and it felt so strange, I assumed he'd be taking his food to go but he sat at the table right next to me and it felt very awkward. My mother picked up on the atmosphere and said she could see him staring at me but trying not to make it obvious (I hadn't really told anyone about us). We haven't spoke in weeks, I think he was trying to make me notice him but looking at him made me feel horrible. I feel so silly for feeling this way as it was only a few months and now I've seen him again I can't stop thinking about him... any advice on how to stop?!