I found out 8 weeks ago that I was pregnant and over that period my relationship has disintegrated completely. He said he doesn’t want a baby and shouted at me that he would kill himself if I went through with it. Things were perfect at the start. He said he could see us together forever. Having babies. Getting married but now that it is a reality he has completely thrown his toys out the pram. I feel like it’s emotionally abusive to make me choose his life or my baby. But he thinks he’s so reasonable. I’ve decided to go no contact so that I can make a decision about continuing the pregnancy but I really do not know what to do. It also turns out there has been lots of lies and potential contact with an ex of his. How can I make a decision that doesn’t include him. I don’t want his terrible behaviour to be the reason I don’t keep it. But I’m terrified of having him around forever. He is emotionally manipulative, aggressive and at times violent to himself. He says he needs to go away and work on himself to decide how to be involved but I don’t know if he is just too damaged. Any advice welcome!