Met a surgeon when I was his student 3 years ago (we are the same age). Told him I liked him last November and we've spoken every day. He's talked about how he'd have been in a relationship with me if I hadn't moved 3 hours away.
We've fallen out once. He wasn't around for a few days and I felt like he was picking me up and putting me down as he felt like it. I blocked him. Came back and he was suddenly very nice, talking about relationships again, complimenting me. Then that fizzled but he still pops up in my messages every day.
He's often "busy", which is true as he's a heart surgeon, but I think he uses work as an excuse sometimes. We met up once at a conference and we didn't meet until the 3rd day.
I don't feel like a priority to him. We are in this undefined situation, so I can't really have any expectations like I would if he were my partner. I don't really know what I want to be honest. I'm very busy at work too.
I'm going back to his city next week and offered to meet up. He said he'd check his diary. 3 days later I got annoyed and said I don't think he cares if he sees me or not. He sent the reply "maybe I'm just too busy".
I can't get my head round speaking to someone every day for 6 months and discussing relationships but not wanting to see them.
To me his behaviour makes no sense.