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Something feels off

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Namechange212 · 13/04/2022 08:56

Recently I’ve been talking to a guy I went on a date with 5 years ago (prior to my last relationship), from what I remember he ghosted me after but we were both younger in our early 20s at the time, he got back in touch and I’m aware a lot can change in 5 years so I decided to give another chance . We went on another date at the weekend, things seemed to be really promising and good flow/banter/flirting with messages etc before date. Since the date though something has felt “off”, messages not as frequent and not flowing like they were. He says he wants a second date (not organised yet), he initiated contact after the date and I sent him a message yesterday asking if everything is ok because something feels off and he replied saying of course it is. But I just can’t shake the feeling something isn’t right, I don’t know if I should just take his word that all is ok and give the benefit of the doubt or end it and take back the control? He did say he has had a lot on but it doesn’t seem to be much more than what he had on before from what he says. Any advice on how to approach this one?

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Namechange212 · 13/04/2022 18:31

This has definitely been helpful. I hate that OLD is full of people that do this though, not great for self-esteem in general

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