Confused

[Tiara2]

I am pulling my hair as I am very confused. My child's school senior member of staff has had a crush on me as I have seen him checking on me and so on...but I am also guilty to have shown him signs that I probably have had a thing too for him...I don't want things to escalate...I want to remain professional however he has stopped greeting me since the last time he spoke, he was overdoing his greetings and I didn't wanted to reciprocate as I found this unprofessional ( not to say that I liked the attention a while...).

Did he had a crush on me? Stare, smile, checking me during meeting, ...i'm pretty sure I got that right... Anyway all the flirting has stopped but my feeling of guilt keeps coming as he is acting as if it is my fault, SHOULD I remove my child from this school?

Thank you

To add, no exchange of words has been taken place - only eye contact and body language. I have not had any proper conversation with him only greetings.

Are you asking if you should remove your child from their school because you have made eye contact/exchanged pleasant facial expressions with a member of the staff and now feel that it was inappropriate to have done so?

If so, the answer is no, and you are massively overthinking things.

If you don't want to talk to this person, don't, and move on with your life.

I’d leave your child in the school. Whatever it was will pass.
If you two never actually spoken or really flirted in conversation then it will pass quickly. Just be polite and say good morning/ hello and leave it at that.

Can I just add that I tried to be polite and say hi but he has not replied??

Can I just add that I tried to be polite and say hi but he has not replied?? That's not a bad thing, is it? Just ignore each other and carry on.

Thank you for your thoughts. All in all, you are saying that I should avoid my crush.