I feel sad that I've started to feel like when my parents are gone my sister and I won't have a relationship anymore
Over the years she's become so judgemental and preachy and I just can't even vent to her anymore because she feels like she always has to offer an opinion (usually negative) rather than just being a sounding board
For context I'm younger and was wild in my younger days and married a man that initially my family had doubts about but ultimately we're now running a really successful business now but we still get treated like the slightly subversive young punks by them! It's very odd when we're all middle aged now.
They seem to disapprove of our life choices and how we raise our kids etc and have a lot to say about it
Sis says she feels sad I don't share so much anymore but when I do I get these long preachy replies from her and it's like there is now a total disconnect
Not sure how to fix it or even if I want too to be honest!