Me and my partner of (only) 3 years have had to call it a day. Well I have. We've had everything thrown at us in our short relationship and neither of us can cope anymore. Its been traumatic and exhausting. We've had constant crap from both our exes involving our children. His ex has been particularly controlling and manipulative. We've loved each other, tried protect each other from the worst but it's led us both to have depression in various forms. I am drained. I cant stop crying tonight. I cant go on knowing it could be like this for many years more. Ive had to end it. I'm totally heartbroken and cant stop crying but I have my son upstairs who adores him and I cant bring myself to tell him its over. I just need stop crying, I feel such loss