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Feeling numb

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Woowoo67 · 05/04/2022 06:50

So I didn't know where else to go our once a month arguement which I can always guarantee will happen this is how it goes I cooked dinner partner didn't want just yet so I explained to him that I've wrapped it up and it's on cooker he then says to me randomly that I'm acting all weird I said I'm not acting weird are you ok I just only said I put your dinner on the cooker this is when he explodes and says I never shut up and have I heard myself speak I always go on and on and on this was all on front of my 2 year old son who heard everyword and the swear words I tried to explain myself but he wasn't having any of it just to point out this is not the first time it has happened and I always end up apologising and feeling like I'm.not enough for him but if it wasn't for my son to come into the kitchen and cuddle me and say mummy please don't cry it's okay I'm not sure what I would of done but all night I just felt numb by yesterdays argument I don't know what goes on with my partner I love him but I'm at a loss as to what to do say these days just incase I get my head ripped off

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GeneLovesJezebel · 05/04/2022 06:52

Well, he’s abusive to start, and you don’t swear in front of kids.
Do you want your son to grow up with that behaviour as an example to him ?
Luckily you’re not married so you can end it easier if you ever want to.

Thesefeetaremadeforwalking · 05/04/2022 06:54

Another vote for getting out of this abusive relationship.

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