I feel like I have no clue how to deal with my mum anymore. She divorced my dad about a decade ago and really hasn’t coped well since, she’s become very anti men in general and has become quite angry in her views towards the world. She is also quite reliant on having my sister and her around her, although we try to be supportive, we both live two hours away and it is difficult to see her regularly whilst working full time. My partner and I tend to visit our families alternate months so I visit her every other month. She knows she is welcome to come to my house on the month that I don’t visit but in seven months she hasn’t been once despite being invited. She is clearly lonely and now sulks when I spend time with my partners family or cannot go and see her but I don’t know what to do. I’ve tried to encourage her to get out more, maybe join some clubs to make a larger circle of friends but she won’t. It’s making me feel so anxious and I don’t know what to do because I’m worried she’s lonely and unhappy but doesn’t seem to want to find ways to meet new people (friends or a partner). Anyone been here or have any advice?