Hi
I just wondered if anyone had any advice. My friend's older teen son killed himself 2 weeks ago, which has obviously been horrendous. She was going through a very bitter divorce at the time (not the children's father). Current she still lives with that soon-to-be ex-husband and three of her school age children (not his). Her ex has continued to make their lives difficult, he told her the death was "inevitable", refused to give them space then reluctantly left for a few days, blaming her. Now he's back, he does things like turning off lights when she's using a room , sometimes even when she's in a room, commanding the attention of guests who to come to visit her, refuses to let her put a lock on her bedroom door despite her important paperwork going missing. Before the death he had removed the curtain poles in her sitting room (they have one each) adn he would sit outside the patio windows staring in at her. He's also constantly doing little things, which seem inconsequental but are just harassing - like insisting their garden gates are wide open if she's sitting outside, with her kids or friends. Then continually going to re-open them if someone closes them - which is how they've normally kept them, till now. It's like low-level but constant invasion of her headspace. Her solicitor says he hasn't done enough for a restraining order. Are there any harassment type routes she could use to make him leave her alone? She's stayed in the house bc she put a lot of money in when they got together, he's spent a lot of her money during the marriage and she needs to make sure he doens't sell the house. Her now deceased son, told her to fight him. To her credit, she's not arguing just ignoring him. Any advice on dealing with this prick? Much appreciated.