First time posting so forgive me if I unintentionally break etiquette codes or struggle with acronyms! I've been with my wife for many years. We have children and, like any couple, have had our ups and downs. Some my fault, some hers and some, well, it's tit for tat. Over lockdown, my wife started playing an online game and became more and more involved to the point that she was ignoring me and and our children without seemingly being aware. When I pointed it out, I was the bad guy. I discovered she was talking to a few males in the game that she had also friended on social platforms. I saw what was being said and confronted as it seemed inappropriate but was assured it was nothing. Time went on and the messages talked about meeting up. Again, confrontation, again told it was nothing but also met with aggression and "you don't trust me". I've been assured that she no longer talks to said "friend" but I still have paranoia and uncertainty. I'm afraid to confront again and cause an argument but it's tearing me up to think she has eyes for someone else. What should I do?