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Just sex? Or love?

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Gempressa · 02/04/2022 18:24

I'm having amazing sex with someone. And we've agreed to continue our 'relationship' for as long as we're both happy to.
It's fine to just be having sex, but he's mentioned more than once and asked me if I want him to make love to me. And that he want to.
We were involved when we were teens/early twenties, (in our 30's and 40's now) and admitted back then that we had feelings for each other but nothing ever became official. We've since both had other relationships. It's been more than 10 years since.
I'm confused about why he's asking me this.
The sex is great, there's eye contact which has never happened before and the comments about making love is making me think he's got feelings for me. Is it possible to make love and not have an emotional connection?
Could he be regretting what didn't happen in the past? You don't say things like that to someone you're just having sex with, right?
What does it mean? I'm confused

OP posts:
ididntevennotice · 02/04/2022 18:28

Isn't make love just another name for sex? Like shag, fuck, romp etc

GreyCarpet · 02/04/2022 18:29

Making love. Sex. Fucking.

It's just different qords to describe the same thing.

Many a woman has posted on here heartbroken because she has tried to read more into a man's words than she should have ever given thought to.

Ask him or proceed as you have been until now.

Don't assume you can read his mind or that he has changed his intentions in anyway.

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