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Feeling used

3 replies

whatisthislife22 · 02/04/2022 06:56

Hello,

A co-worker and I got talking to each other back in January. It started on Instagram, a lot of similar interests and we spoke quite a lot via DMs. Then we started flirting, switched to Snapchat and enjoyed messaging. A couple of months later, he said he couldn't stop thinking about me to which I also agreed. We eventually agreed to hookup and it was a lot of fun. He still chatted to me afterwards and we've also done some more sexting.

The problem I have is I think I'm being played. At work we're absolutely fine together, flirt a bit but in the whole we work well.

However, we had a works night out last night and he pretty much ignored me the whole time. When he did come over he started flirting with another girl right in front of me. I then heard stories of him flirting with others. He just didn't even look at me and if we happened to glance at each then he would look away. I left the night feeling like I'm just there for his convenience and feeling pretty low.

OP posts:
kshaw · 02/04/2022 07:14

Did you go on a date and ended up sleeping together or did you agree to a hook up and that's exactly what you did? As someone who has recently re-entered the dating world I think there's a massive difference. If you agreed to just a hook up then I don't think you can expect anything else, it was just a fun night. Move on xx

seensome · 02/04/2022 10:11

Just act professional around him in future, if he tries to flirt just brush it off.
Just see it as a fling, it's over now.

TicTacToe10 · 02/04/2022 10:12

I had this once. My tactic was to play him at his own game and ignore him. They always come back, but by then you probably won't want him.

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