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Did anyone's DH day they'll make changes to save marriage and actually managed it in the long term?

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BearBirdBaboon · 01/04/2022 21:44

I said to DH the other night that I don't want to be with him any more. There have been many problems over our 13 year marriage. I have put a lot of effort into trying to make it work, but want to call it a day now. Now that I've told DH that, he's been on his best behaviour and has made a "plan" to change. I don't know if it's worth giving him yet another chance and just wanted to ask if anyone's DH said they'll make changes to save their marriage and actually managed to make and maintain their changes? (We have two DC, aged 9 and 11.) Thank you for your thoughts!

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BearBirdBaboon · 01/04/2022 21:45

*"say", not "day" in title!

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TheGrinchsDog · 02/04/2022 00:34

No, sorry. I gave mine the same talk and got lots of promises which quickly fell by the wayside.

All the behaviours I had a problem with returned and in some cases escalated when he felt he was safe to relax again. I wish I hadn't spent so much time giving him the same chances over and over again.

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