Relationship is not bad enough to leave & not good enough to stay. What should I do?

[WalthamstowMum6]

Relationship is not bad enough to leave & not good enough to stay. What should I do?

What does that even mean? If you're unhappy, you leave. You've got one life, don't waste it.

If its not good enough to stay, don't stay. Fuck that "balance" shit.

A relationship doesn't have to be terrible for you to leave. It can just not be right for you.

You only need to give your own self permission to leave. How can you be helped here into leaving if this is what you ultimately want?.

Do not stay in such a relationship because of or for the sake of the children either. They will not say "thanks mum" to you for doing that to them.

If it's not good enough you go. Full stop

Why do you think you deserve only 'good enough'?

Sure there will be highs and lows. But surely the whole point of being with someone is because they lift you and make your life better/happier/more enriched. If they don't, go.

Trial separation? Don't be surprised if your DP decides they want to remain single as a result though.

Do you live together.