I'm a single woman . Been single for a few years now , tried online dating but hasn't gone great for me .
I have a "friend" who I once had a quickie with then we both moved on but stayed friends.
He has been with someone for a good few years.
We remained friends .
He came over this week saying he was now in an "open" relationship as his partner has said she is done with sex , I'm not massively attracted to him or anything but we ended up having sex .
He then back peddled like fury and said although he had the "green light" to seek sex elsewhere he hadn't ever done it and now felt guilty and would have to process what he had done . He leant over touching my hand to say this "wasn't on me"
Too fucking right it wasn't .
The more I think about it the more angry I feel . He was bullshitting wasn't he? If they'd discussed it why would he feel guilty and why would he even tell me ?
I don't have many friends since moving house and location and job - but I've blocked him .
He was lying wasn't he ? He wanted a shag , hadn't actually told his partner and felt shit after and in telling me that made me feel bad too -
That what's happened here isn't it ?
I've done right blocking and not wanting to know him haven't I ?
I feel a bit shit as been stood up tonight on a date from O.l.d he said he'd booked a restaurant but hadn't messaged since Friday so I've not even got ready .
I don't need that kind of friend tho do I . ?