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WorkHardPlayHard1 · 26/03/2022 18:57

Not sure where to begin on this but am absolutely devastated as my friend has said she is "helping" my other friend out with their divorce. They weren't even getting divorced til she stepped in!! She has lied about them being in a relationship and has left her very ill husband.
She now says I am a "bad friend" for not supporting her choices.
Am I going mad or is she the bad friend? WTAF?

Half of our friendship group are siding with her but it's not their friend's husband she has ran off with.
How did I get her so wrong? I thought she was a decent person who has done loads in the community.

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BingBangB0ng · 26/03/2022 19:26

I’m sorry, I’m struggling to understand this.

Friend A pretended to be helping Friend B with her divorce, but was actually secretly in a relationship with Friend B’s husband? And Friend A has now left her own ill husband for Friend B’s husband?

SunflowerTed · 29/03/2022 11:08

I don’t understand who has run off with who?

TheMarvelousMrsMaisel · 29/03/2022 11:09

I don't understand.

She's ran off with her friends husband? In which case drop her. If she's helping them with a divorce? Then I don't see the issue?

Enough4me · 29/03/2022 11:11

Please repost to say who did what with pretend names.

Vapeyvapevape · 29/03/2022 11:31

Your friend has left her unwell husband and run off with someone else's husband ? I'd give the drama a wide birth if I were you.

WorkHardPlayHard1 · 06/04/2022 17:37

Sorry for the confusion I'm still upset at the nice friend I thought I had doesn't exist!

Friend of 13 years, let's called her Marie, has ran off with my close friend's husband. I rang her and asked her what was going on and she said they were "just friends" and she was "helping him with their divorce". They now see each other every weekend.

Not sure why am writing this but am struggling to make sense and deal with it.

Anyone else been in a similar situation? How did you get over it and support the friends who have been left? 😘

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WorkHardPlayHard1 · 06/04/2022 18:24

@BingBangB0ng

I’m sorry, I’m struggling to understand this.

Friend A pretended to be helping Friend B with her divorce, but was actually secretly in a relationship with Friend B’s husband? And Friend A has now left her own ill husband for Friend B’s husband?

Exactly this x
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