After chatting off and on from a dating site for a considerable period of time, I finally met someone who I had a lovely dinner out with and there was lots of chemistry, and great conversation. He'd told me he had health issues due to an accident, was also living with and caring for his elderly parent who had also had a fall and had a extremely stressful job. But he was keen to see me and we made general plans about the things we'd like to do in the future together.
Due to these constraints though, he's limited in being able to stay over night, or go away for the weekend, so only a few hours together when we have had an evening. He's come over to mine, and he's asked me to go to his rather posh gym and Spa as well (and while it's been his idea I've paid both times to go, a rather hefty day fee).
But last times I've seen him all affection and intimacy has gone (we had slept together on date 3,very successfully). He told me last night that with everything going on with him he feels like there is no joy in anything for him, and it's sucked the fun out of him. He's said he knows I'll want the fun back.
So, we seem to basically have a friendship. This is 6 weeks in. Seeing each other once a week. Thus no sex, and nothing really romantic.
I'm late 40s, as is he. I'm divorced with two kids, and I have limited evenings free.
I do like him, but wonder if this is a situation that is likely to change, or I should just say go sort yourself out and keep in touch?