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How do I get over this

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Ultimatebetrayal · 25/03/2022 07:20

Anyone who knows me will recognise this so I have name changed.

My ex has lied to the police and reported me for revenge porn. He has teamed up with the previous ex and they have made false allegations.

I was arrested and taken to police station for 12 hours. If these allegations were true my career and business would be over.

I am innocent and the police will not find anything. The police have no evidence save for the statements of 2 bitter dumped men.

But I loved this man. I ended it because it wasn't quite right and I didn't see a future. But I still loved him.

I just can't process what he has done. I can't believe that the man I thought I loved could be so evil. The impact on me and my children has been terrible. I can't sleep. I can't eat. I can barely function. Everyone knows and are talking about me.

I keep going over and over it in my head. It's like a broken record.

He is telling everyone I cheated on him with my best friend. It's all lies.

I don't know whether he actually believes the crap he is saying.

Help.

OP posts:
Hiddenvoice · 25/03/2022 12:08

I think you should maybe speak to a lawyer.
Tell them everything so you have legal support and then look to get a restraining order against him if things go further.

He’s clearly not accepted that it’s over and feels there’s more of a reason behind it that you’re not telling him. I’d keep your distance from him, don’t reply to any of his messages but keep copies so you have them if you need them.

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