To give some context, we have had a difficult few months (redundancy and health issues). Tonight I tried to have a conversation about what we could do on our free day off together this week (v unusual) as I didn’t want to just stay in the house and waste my leave.
This resulted in an enormous argument with my partner saying that he has been struggling with his mental health and how I’m making it worse. He then got angry saying that I could go out on my own and he wanted to just “do his own thing”. I’m upset because I feel like he doesn’t want to spend time with me, and also he says I’m making him miserable. I just end up feeling jealous of people who go out and do nice things together as that isn’t happening often for us at the moment. I’m not sure what to do…