Am absolutely raging and need to calm down.
In the summer, I got a message on Facebook. It was an ex I had gone out with for a few months in uni, hadn't seen him in 20 years. He told me he was married but I was the love of his life and he wanted to be with me. He had a messed up childhood and doesnt understand social norms. I ignored him and blocked him.
Then I started getting messages from his wife saying that his feelings for me were ruining their marriage. I felt for her and sent her screenshot of his message and said I wished them well but this wasn't drama I wanted to be part of.
Since then he keeps finding ways of contacting me online and I keep blocking him.
I've had dozens of missed calls via Facebook messenger and messages from his wife telling me to leave him alone. Have blocked her now too, was a total oversight that I didn't first. But what if she also she is creates new accounts and continues to message me? My Facebook has really high security settings and the messages have been going into my spam and I've only seen them now and feel angry/annoyed and even scared that these two are going to escalate their behaviour...I don't know how or why, but it's really disconcerting.
I want nothing to do with either of them and wish they'd disappear. He has form for lying, throughout uni he told he was adopted when he wasn't, he even lied about his ethnicity!! So I have no idea what he has been telling his wife.
Apart from ignoring and blocking what can I do?