I split with my partner in september after a long and ridiculous 3 years of (what I have now learnt from the thread below) passive aggressive behaviour. He was mean to my kids, greedy, disrespectful and very much a child.
Anyway we remained friends (god knows why) and when a band we both liked toured in december we decided to go AS FRIENDS and we did have a good night...nothing else happened, we remained 'just friends'.
So then he went home and we've not seen each other since but everynight he texts me to ask if I'm going on msn and its silly because when I DO go on msn all he does is bore me to death with links to pictures that he finds funny... or recently he sent me a link to a "joke" about a little girl being raped by her dad I was furious and told him so and I said I couldnt understand how he could find that funny...he then said "I didn't really (although before I kicked off he said he'd had a "giggle" at it) I just wanted to show you how sick it was"
Anyway I'm just sick to death of him and want to break contact completely. Thing is, when he was here in december he left his sat nav window sticker thing. He couldnt find it when he was about to leave (it later turned up in the biscuit barrel ) so I text him when I'd found it. I wish I hadn't done because now he's saying he's going to come down and get it.
He lives around 150 miles away from me but is going to a car show near where we live next saturday so he's said he'll come here to pick it up on his way back. I DONT WANT HIM TO.
I have told him I'm going out so he just said "well I'll text you before I set off" so I said "even so, I know for a fact I'll be out" so he insisted it was ok because he'd still text before he set off and when he got here if I wasnt in that would be fine
I'm so annoyed, this is what he was like when we were together, if HE wanted to do something he WOULD do it and bollocks to everyone else.
Anyway last night on msn I told him that I WAS DEFINATELY going to be out so there was no point in him coming at all so he said "for fucks sake why make it such an issue? I've told you Ill text first anyway and if you're not in that's fair enough"
He made out that I was being totally unreasonable and making a mountain out of a mole hill but I refuse to be manipulated by him anymore.
So AM I really being unreasonable? I'm sure this thing is only worth about £3.50 anyway, not even worth the petrol money to come here.