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Separation

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User020367 · 20/03/2022 21:53

So I posted yesterday as my husband is becoming more and more difficult to live with. A bit of background we have children together I’ve been a sahm for 5 years and I’m now in the process of Starting a small business. I felt it was time to get back to work but also he has gotten us into severe financial difficulty. He has amassed 13,000 euros of debt. There is also a pending court case which is stressing me out, as is his refusal to deal with any of this!
To top it all off he’s very derogatory towards me, and has been violent in the past, nothing major,but even so it’s not right.
On the other hand he can also be charming etc. Anyway I think I’ve reached my limit and all I want is to close my door after work and live in peace. Am I asking for too much?
I don’t live in the Uk so it’s extra hard for me. I’m so unsure of myself. I keep worrying I wouldn’t cope financially on my own. Thoughts?

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GeneLovesJezebel · 20/03/2022 21:56

No, you’re not asking too much at all.
What is the divorce process and custody situation where you live ? Will you be wanting to move out of the country ?

User020367 · 20/03/2022 22:09

I can’t leave the country so I’m stuck here. What makes it difficult is I have no family and no savings.

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