Hello,
I've worked with this guy for the past few months and I thought he was really hot when I first saw him after he started working at my place. We started following each other on Instagram then in January we started direct messaging after liking each others stories and having a lot in common. Things really ramped up and we talked a lot and then our chat turned very flirty and it's been like that ever since. We started chatting on snapchat every day and agreed we would hook up for sex. I was happy with that plan. We chatted about how we hoped to make it a regular thing. We also talked about non-sex related topics too.
We eventually hooked up this week however we both seemed to have our guards up a bit and although the sex was fun he came quite quickly, we both knew he would because he was super horny. Anyways, afterwards we agreed it was worth the wait but things just turned a bit cold. I felt that I didn't say much because I was keeping my guard up and I got the same impression from him. I left not long after and he messaged me pretty much straight away to ask if I had a good time. We both agreed that we had no regrets and it was fun although he laughed about his poor performance (coming too quickly) which I reassured him it was far from poor.
He has since messaged me purely through Instagram just random links to prompt a few conversations but it's not like it was before we hooked up. It's been non-flirty and we haven't, or shall I say, he hasn't brought up the sex we had since we messaged after it had happened. It's been 3 days now and I want to message him about it and how I felt that I had my guard up but I don't know if I'm coming across as needy? Any advice would be great, thanks! Like I said we have chatted every day since just not about the hookup.