gay

[essexgirl58]

I have finally come to the realisation that I am probably gay. I have felt like this for a while. Never felt sexually attracted to men but felt sexually attracted to women. A friend of mine said that perhaps I have not met the right man yet but she is wrong. There is a bloke I know who I think likes me but how do I let him down? Do I say sorry I prefer woman to men. Dont get me wrong, he is not totally unatractive but I have seen better looking men and have seen worse looking men.

To test my theory out I googled nude men and looking at a mans penis just made me feel sick. I got nothing out of looing at a naked man and then did the same with females and felt a sort of sexual attraction looking at a nude woman, fanticising about touching her breasts and having her touch mine but the thought of a man touching me like that really puts me off.

Does this mean I am a lesbian or just not found the right man yet

@CaptainMyCaptain but are you turned on by random naked women?

So lesbians are turned on by women, gay men are turned on by men, straight men are turned on by women but yet for some reason "straight" women dont find the male body visually arousing and are more turned on by women

@WhatInFreshHell Yeah a lot of these women who aint turned on by mens bodies, find women more sexier etc really need to stop dating men.

I've heard so many women say that they dont find mens bodies attractive, watch lesbian porn, are more turned on by random naked women etc but yet they still decide to date men

@BlueFlavour well lesbians seem to like vagina, gay men love dicks and straight men love vaginas. Why cant "straight" women actually be attracted to our bodies?

Because its like women are sexually attracted to male attention but not actually men

But if your a hetrosexual woman who is not visually turned on by naked men but you are so by women then your a lesbian that shouldnt be dating men

I don't know if you're gay but you're definitely rude.

I think im gay