wanky puky post about bestest friendships

[Tortington]

she needs a good cheer up
i met my bestest friend in all the world when i was 12 and in senior school - we did all manner of stupid things together and we were often at each others house. at 13 we decided to become witches and i wanted to do alove spell becuase i was madly inlove with this boy and we got loads of witchy books from library and lit candles and stuff and said spells and small things like having a red canlde and knowing your true loves middle name were mere trivialities

she moved school in the third year as she moved house - miles away at least 2 buses. but amazingly we stayed in contact. my bestest friend had a parrot she loved him v. much and i loved being at her house becuase she had loads of brothers and sisters and i was an only child and she told me about pranks they would pullon april fools days and i wuz ded jealous becuase i couldnt really sew up the arms of my mums nightie or put cellophane over the bog.

i remember that i had started my period and was mortally embarrassed and flushed my pad at her house causing much bog blockage and there was huge who haaa and hushed talking too from her mum

i remember that in her house they had a choice of cereal and i wuz ded jealous becuase i never got cereal unless it was own brand cornflakes - i got toast - if i made it miself ( my nan had moved out and she previously did all things nice)

i remember we used to play all sorts of imaginary games

and we made up a routine to a-ha songs - which coincidentally scummymummy joined in with on pissed up night in oldham after xmas manc meet up in 2005? ( we also opened bottle of wine and drank in much common fashion on train - but scummy had a cork screw upon her person - who does that?)

anyway life carried on and we left school we each did shitty jobs - she worked for a private detective - i wuz ded jealous.

i got preggers at 16 and suddenly all my other mates from school fecked off and gues who was there for me.

she visited me after i ad my baby and bought me a small present for me. and looked on in 17 yr old bemusement as i broke down blubbin in much hormonal state.

she babysat for me and put the nappy on backwards. but she was always there for me

through marital things and ups and downs through kids being naughty and me having highly strung breakdowns - she was there.

and she had never judged ever.

so heres a nod to bestest friends

love ya rhubarb xxxx

Oh fecking hell!
Custy you cow you made me blub!

Well I remember being dead jealous of you because you didn't have brothers or sisters to tease you and row with you. You got all the attention from your mum and I had to fight for any off mine!

Your mum once took us to church at the wrong time so that we got in at the end, she was mortified because my mum was there and begged me to pretend that we'd been there all the way through - which I happily did!

You encouraged me to bunk off school by running pretend errands for your mum and gran.

Our lives have gone in completely different ways. You are now at the other end of the country, you were married at 17 and your kids are now teenagers. I only got married at 29 and my kids are still little. But through all the turmoil life has thrown at me, you've been my one constant. I can phone you up and just mention one word or one name and I needn't explain any more, you just know what I'm talking about. You are forever the voice of sanity and reason and you make me laugh every time I talk to you.

I am in awe of the way you have handled your share of problems, the longevity of your marriage and your wonderful, brilliant kids. If my kids turn out like yours then I'd be the proudest mum!

Fartypants!

Love ya mate! x

that's lovely

awww

I have gone all squishy inside now

glad you finally found the thread Rhubarb

(now quick, pop it in your watched threads list so you can whip it out next time she is mean to you )

lol! I think I might have to save this one on my pc!

Custy is great. She's got a HUGE heart and would do anything for anyone.

She knows I'm having a rough time so she started this thread for me, and that's typical of her! She always been there for me and I really do appreciate that. She's like another sister.

Even if she is all yellow and gooey!

thats really nice!

now i get the names!

awwww thats great my real life bf is on here Eddas -

she is there for me any time of day, any day of the week. We met at secondary school (she even went out with my brother for a bit ) then we ended up living a minute away from each other our dd's are only 3 months difference in age and dd1 insists eddas dd is her bestest friend. She moved but only few minutes in the car. We had dd2 and her ds around the same time.
Our dd's go to preschool together and will hopefully go to same infant school and dd2 and eddas ds will be at preschool/school together. We have been on holiday together as families for last few years and this year will be weird as we are going without them . Best bit is our DH get on really well and play for same footie team so its great.

I can honeslty say there are times since having the dd's that i don't think I would have survived the day without her support/love/friendship, she was there for me after my m/c she visited me the night dd2 was born and had been in scbu. She brings me chocolate when needed and we have some great nights out together (not many these days but they are fab when we go especially take that few weeks ago). I hope that I am as much of good friend to her as she is to me.

I would be so so lost without her - so thankyou Eddas

sorry hijacked your thread

hijack away tis a love fest xxx

Lezzer!

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