Please help!

[weddinglovepure]

Hello,
I am going through something and would welcome thoughts & suggestions.
Recently, a man whom I was seeing for 5 months, ghosted me out of nowhere.
He is in army and he says, I don't get time.
Which is understandable, however, he used to make time for me to talk once in a day.
Now, I see him active on Instagram but he doesn't talk to me at all.
I feel betrayed and heartbroken.
I thought, we could make it work, I love him.

We haven't talked in a while.
My faith in love is fading away.
I have been abandoned in my past relationships too.
Not ghosted though.
I am not sure how to fix the hurt anymore.
My hurt is becoming more & more everyday.
I have ended friendships & spend time alone.

Please help.
Thank you, cheers!

Have you ever met him?

Yes, we did meet.

Reestablish your friendships. Go out, have fun, treat yourself and be kind to yourself.

It sounds like it may have been pretty intense if you are using the L word so early on. Is it possible he 'love bombed' you?

Walk away & don't look back. Hold your head up. You're worth more than this. Mooning over some dud is holding you back from meeting Mr Right.

Considering he in the army and there is a war in Ukraine... He may not have the time anymore to talk??? And just cause someone is active on insta doesn't mean they are actually on it, if the app is running in the background u can be marked as active

Sorry you are feeling like this, I would suggest moving on. It's not the best start in a relationship

What was your relationship like, when it was good? How much time did you spend together, what sort of things did you do?

Thank you so much for your kind words, it really means a lot to me.