I've changed my name.. again, but I wanted to come on and thank those many many posters who helped me see that I had some serious attachment issues that spilled into my relationship.
There were so many of you. Basically my exh left us after an affair, we were all in bits.
My children are still reeling but in therapy as am I.
I met a wonderful man 18 months ago who has done nothing but try to prove to me that he loves me and that I am an important part of his life , and indeed, his priority after his own kids.
We LAT.
I just couldn't trust him for absolutely no reason. He did nothing wrong but I was determined to pick holes and find him
Doing wrong.
I have been a child of a toxic marriage and have had one man after another leave me in my life , romantically and otherwise.
I rather shamefully asked him to get rid of old dates and exes on social media which he did without drama. He did so once he understood why I felt the way I did.
I have since told him everything about my life, advice given from so many posters here and have sought therapy.
I am week five into psychotherapy because of your advice and support and I already feel liberated. I am
Making the links so to speak.
Thank you so so much.
It's a long road but I've found some
Small area of happiness in an exceptionally stressful and unusual situation so I wanted to say thanks.
I've got and Am reading the books .. all of them... The body keeps score .. Attached... why does he do that?....I've done the freedom
Programme online ... all because of
You collectively and I appreciate your input so much so I wish you a lovely week and hope that I can pay it forward in some
Way. You know exactly who you are . Mostly very regular posters who advised on a variety of posts . Maybe you made the connection , maybe not but please accept my thanks.
You kind of saved me
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