This kind of thread is probably already out there, but given the high number of people posting who so clearly are in abusive situations or relationships with potential to become abusive, I wondered..... would it be beneficial to have a thread where we can share experiences and perhaps help others with the warning signs, legal stuff and so on, now that those of us who are on the other side of an abusive situation are able to spot the warning signs more easily for others?
I wish I had had all the resources which are now out there when I was so confused about my ex.... would I have paid attention...? Maybe, maybe not, but often time it can be a tiny thing which is the actual last straw in helping someone get away from a toxic partner.
It took me too long to leave..... maybe by sharing resources and life experience, we can make a difference for others, especially young women? I am in my fifties now and wasted a lot of time in my forties on a lying, cheating, thieving rotter... but he was charming of course....
Hey ho.. firing away with a helpful starter from the police..
www.norfolk.police.uk/sites/norfolk/files/page/downloads/what_is_coercive_control_leaflet.pdf