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So torn re new relationship

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Thinkrr999 · 14/03/2022 20:34

I've been seeing someone for a few months. He's lovely. Caring and kind. Fun. But we have such different views. I found out the other day he's not vaccinated against ANYTHING and nor is his child. He doesn't agree with vaccinations. This goes against my views, such a great deal. He's also quite into conspiracies and I am NOT. It's also moving quite fast. I don't know if I'm just getting cold feet after being single for a few years. We've got stuff booked together and I don't want to fall in that trap of staying together through guilt. It's just so hard because I flit between really, really liking him and just wanting to be on my own. Help!

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Thinkrr999 · 15/03/2022 16:56

@BlingLoving

It's 4 months in, you owe him nothing. Never mind the red flags re love bombing, ultimately, things like vaccines or conspiracy theories are core to how you view the world. They're not minor things like preferring white over yellow where compromise is possible or not liking fancy restaurants where the person who does can choose to just do that with someone else.

The fact that you feel so guilty also says a lot. And none of it good.

I agree completely with this!
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