I met my boyfriend 18 months ago. We got together 8 months ago buy sadly just a month into our relationship he had to come out of a well paid job because he needs further back surgery. He's gone from not having to think about money to nothing. He was also just beginning to start a new life after his ex and leaving everything with her. He had nothing when we met in a house sense. He left the ex with all the furniture and appliances. He was living in a stepping stone rented house that's run down and its now being sold..so he will be possibly homeless if the council won't help.
I can't help but compare myself to his ex girlfriend. They do sort of communicate as friends from time to time, but she got bitter when we met and she's cut down massively on communication it seems. He has no interest in her anymore but in all honesty it's just shit. He doesn't post much on Facebook so it was easy for me to scroll back through. He always showed her off. In statuses, photos and occasionally gifts. He declared his feelings for her. Commented on loads of her photos and it was obvious they were a couple. He's taken a very different approach to Facebook with me. He is single. Never ever tags me in anything when he writes about himself on there. No photos but we haven't been out yet.
I know he did loads with her before the relationship broke down. Including holidays abroad. Zoos and meals.
I know we will eventually share more but I just feel so confused whether im expecting too much for this stage. I guess I want him to show me off abit more but there's nothing to show I guess.