What would you do if you were told to F off?

[sleighbellsjiggling]

Without me going into too much detail as I'd be here all day,

if your OH told you to fuck off, called you names etc when slightly inconvenienced/irritated, what would you do? I.e they're ill and the thing they wanted wasn't there and you were trying to help with an alternative.

I know it's not a normal thing to do in a relationship for me but I'm being made to feel like it's me being too sensitive.

I would leave.

Sounds like coercive control.

I'd do exactly what he's said and I'd fuck right off from him

Leave

Threats of taking the kids!!!

I’d leave now not later as it’s escalating.

@Cakequeen1988

I’d also fuck off and leave him, permanently. I’m not being spoken to like that and neither should you be

This I’d say right oh and go and block

I would do just that. Permanently!

I literally could have written exactly the same, however I get name calling and character assassination as well. Usually after he's had a stressful day at work. I give him the benefit of the doubt but by seeing all the leave responses makes me think it's really not the norm and I need to stop making excuses for him.

Hell no.
I was in a relationship for 3 years where partner frequently called me names and told me to fuck off etc. I wont tolerate it again.

Last week I had a (rare) row with current DP and she said ‘fuck off’ in text. Once we sorted it out, I told her under no circumstances will I tolerate that again, it’s not an acceptable way to speak to someone you love no matter how cross you are and I don’t want a relationship like that again. Im confident she’ll take it on board even in future rows as ultimately neither of us want to upset each other.

Please contact Women's aid for a chat.

You and your children are being abused.
He threatens you to control you.

Get organised and get out.

Tell him nothing.
Call Womens aid for advice.

@billy1966

Please contact Women's aid for a chat.

You and your children are being abused.
He threatens you to control you.

Get organised and get out.

Tell him nothing.
Call Womens aid for advice.

This OP1 It s escalating and it's bad for your children as well as yourself. I'm sorry OP, I know it's hard to organise when you're ground down but Women's Aid will help you organise your thoughts and you will have much more peace of mind once you've separated from this man who is sucking the life out of you and damaging your children! All the very best to you!

I’d assume it’s code for they wants to make Woohoo