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age appropriate crush?

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ryiam · 14/03/2022 04:04

Married, late 40s, mom. Married to guy who cannot stop falling in love with women. So I gave up trying. I've considered divorce, but he won't agree. Lately, met a completely hot guy at work who is much younger. He seems to be smitten. So am I, but I'm so much older, I feel inappropriate moving forward. We both can't stop looking at each other all day, every day. At the same time, we don't know each other that well. I try not to talk to him because I get nervous like a school girl. It's the same for him. I can tell both of us are trying not to show interest. How to get over each other? I don't want to get dumped by some hot younger guy. I want him but it seems insane at the same time.

OP posts:
Littlebylittlelittle · 14/03/2022 04:43

What do you mean your husband won’t agree to divorce
Yoh don’t need someone’s permission or agreement to divorce them? I’m confused

ryiam · 14/03/2022 04:48

Husband argues that he's not chasing the ladies and that I imagine things. I'm convinced it's real. I should just file papers.

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Monty27 · 14/03/2022 04:51

And your DP is the problem?
Jeez

Littlebylittlelittle · 14/03/2022 05:48

@ryiam

Husband argues that he's not chasing the ladies and that I imagine things. I'm convinced it's real. I should just file papers.
Well this seems pretty simple tbh

If you don’t want to be married to him - file . What he says has zero baring on your choice

And the. You are free to pursue whoever you like whether it’s the younger guy or anyone

Littlebylittlelittle · 14/03/2022 05:51

What is your question exactly
Should you get a divorce ?
Should you have an affair ?
Or would you get dumped by the younger man ?

I’m not really sure what you’re asking but the answers seem incredibly obvious

1 it’s your to you
2 no
3 nobody knows

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