We are in the process of divorce, it was my mother-in- law idea. I was trying to do what she wanted for 17 years, until I had enough. She didn’t want us to have children early, when we did she could not stop telling us that we will never get any money, as we had our children too early ( we both were 30)., so finally she succeeded and my husband applied for divorce( we have 4 kids together). He believed his mother not me ( she told him that my getting pregnant was manipulation). Nothing I could do, he refused to listen. His mother also subsidise his very expensive hobby. I followed my husband to live in this country as we met abroad, and I have no family near by. But just achieving the divorce was not enough for her. Now she is turning my children against me. My little one told me today that she heard nanny telling my older child that« mommy is not thinking the normal way» .. she takes them to school something as I work . What can I do? ... am i overreacting. She literally does nothing apart of telling my , kids and rest of my family what I do wrong, she even contacted my extended family ( my cousins to tell them lies..). I just think it’s so unfair on my lovely children.