Anyone made new friends in the last 2 years?

[countrylady2]

I have kept in touch with most friends during the last 2 years vice versa. One 'friend' has been absolutely appalling which it became clear that myself and other friends were constantly chasing him even before lockdown. This friend was very fun and positive years ago but since they started a new job a couple of years ago they have got involved with some colleagues who are very negative and have dark hobbies which they spend a lot of time together and this friend is now quite nasty to people they encounter. I think lockdown made it more obvious.

There was another person I knew but she just used people when she was at a loose end as her boyfriend was busy so I avoid her. She doesn't really have any friends.

Myself and others have tried being supportive to these friends but you get nothing back, it's all about them and always will be.

I just wondered if anyone has made friends in the last 2 years? It would be nice to meet some positive and fun people with a two way friendship.

It’s frustrating when friendships fall apart, or fizzle.
I’ve made “mum” friends and work friends, recently. Another route is to job a club, or start a hobby to make new connections. I find it involves investing some time in getting to know someone, as well as being a bit brave and when you feel the time is ready, suggest a meet up/event to do together and see if they’re keen. Worst they can do is say no, which would immediately tell you, they’re not the type of new friend you’re looking for.

Hi @countrylady2

I find it's hard to make friends generally as effort never seems to be reciprocated. I don't know if it's just me though. I don't expect much, just generally being friendly back and replying to texts as and when etc. People seem so busy these days like they haven't got the time.
My 1 best friend is amazing though, we are super close and give equal effort, tell eachother everything etc. Don't know what I'd do without her!

Does getting a new rescue cat count?