He’s been sleeping with someone else

[Amandasummers]

He ended it couple of months ago randomly but it wasn’t really over? We’ve been sleeping together this whole time, and turns out, he’s been with someone else. Taking her to hotels. Found concrete proof. I feel sick

So sorry you are going through this. You need to dump him . Block his number and get on with life. I know it seems like this is the end of your world, but as time goes on you'll be glad you got rid of him.

He’s my baby’s dad so can’t erase him unfortunately

Well if you broke up then sorry but it was obvious he was sleeping with others as you aren’t together, so he hasn’t actually done anything wrong. Stop sleeping with him.

If he ended it he clearly wasn't going to be exclusive with you and you should have stopped sleeping with him. Lesson learned.

He broke up with you and you allowed him to continue to use you. Why would you do this?

So you don't realise?

I’m surprised you’re surprised.

Get a STI test, make sure you are safe and move on xx

I am so sorry, Amanda. I recall your recent thread where he and his mother sabotaged you and your older children re the holiday that had been planned since last year.

You’ve actually written quite a few threads about this contemptuous, manipulative man. You “couldn’t have a disagreement or cross word without him walking out every other week” and cutting off communication. Only when you’d back off would he show interest and return. He would go on spending sprees and buys designer clothes, while you were in dire straits with holes in your shoes. You’ve been feeling deeply unhappy, lonely and unloved.

You are understandably gutted by this news, but in January you were totally fed up with his despicable ways which destabilize the family. Don’t you and the children deserve better?

delete and block this arsewipe.

No, you don't have to keep talking to him because of the DC.

Is he regularly paying maintenance and keeping a regular visiting schedule with them?