Ok so long story I’ve been with my partner 9 years, have a 6 yo and a 3 yo and I’m currently 32 weeks pregnant. He has/had bad addiction problems for about 7 years of our relationship,
Was very abusive, lived here but never took part in being a father l/partner or helped around the house. Also is unemployed. We broke up for a full year last year, he moved out,
Eventually over that year he pulled himself together and got clean (drug free). We got back together, he had completely changed, helped around the house, was a great dad, great person all together and I fell pregnant (unexpectedly). I noticed
The past 2 months a shift in behaviour so I went snooping, discovered he was taking drugs again, he had relapsed. He’s not helping as much anymore, losing his temper abit more easily again, no motivation, sleeps long periods of the day and leaves me to do everything at 32 weeks pregnant. An example is today, I have had 1 1/2 hours sleep, up with my toddler from 6am and I noticed a little bit of leaking this morning around 4am but not sure if it was my bladder leaking or waters. (I’m not rushing to the hospital as this happened with both my pregnancies, my waters leaked very slowly, so I know what to do and look out for, so I’m monitoring myself with a pad today to see if there’s anymore leaking, if there is I won’t hesitate to go to hospital) I made him aware of
This this morning and he didn’t pay any attention to it and lay down on the sofa and started going to sleep again even though he was only up and I said about helping me because I was tired and that I needed to rest and he said “well I’m tired and need sleep too” then proceeded to fall asleep again. And is currently still sleeping. I don’t know what to do, I’m exhausted. I’ve already made him aware multiple times on how I feel. Am I being a nag? Can anyone give any advice? Please.