My partner is driving me nuts constantly asking me what I'm doing, what I've done, who I'm speaking to etc.
We have been together for about 2 years and do not live together but whenever we are together he's up my back like a lost puppy and its driving me mad.
If he stays here on a weekend its murder, if I go upstairs he follows me and asks what I'm doing, if I go into the bathroom he knocks on the door and asks what I'm doing, if the phone rings he asks who it is and sometimes even sits there going through the caller list on the handset. When I question it he just says stuff like "i'm seeing how people it holds at a time" etc. If I come onto to pc quickly to check my bank or have 5 minutes to myself he will come into the bedroom and sit behind me asking me what I'm doing, when I say "checking my bank" or "just having 5 mins to myself" he will say "oh right" and sit behind me until I turn in off and rejoin him downstairs.
Last weekend my friend text me, I read it, answered it and then put the phone away...no giggling or anything to make him wonder, just a straigh read, reply, close. Anyway he said "what was that?" so I said "a text message" so he said "who from?" so getting a bit pissed off I said "my friend" so he said "oh? what did she want?" argh it drives me mad.
Whenever I question it he just says hes making conversation but I hate having to explain myself constantly. Could he really just be trying to make conversation like this?