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either all men are Twunts or i just attract total nob heads

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MAMAZON · 04/01/2008 12:44

tired of being single, want to have someone to take me out for drinks or a meal once in a while so i joined plenty of fish.

i have yet to go on a date but have been chatting with a few people which is nice as it has helped build my confidence so that one day i might actually meet someone.

anyway, been chatting to a guy for a while now and we haev really got on. to the point where i actually looked forward to sitting at the pc chattingw ith him (pathetic i know)

chatting with him the other day a\nd he says "back in a mo, phone"
he didn't return for the rest of the night. ok i wasn't sat at the pc twiddling my thumbs so no big deal really, but obviously i was a little miffed.

anyway speaking to him last night he came on and told me the reason he had left me was because he went off for sex with another woman!

now i have no hold over this guy. we have never even met so what he does is his own affair, but why on earth would he feel the need to tell me about it? and in a reall bragging sort of way too. " she wont be needing any help any time soon, not after the servicing i gave her"

now add this guy to the ones that send me messages of "can i have a BJ"
or the ones that can barely speak English.

think i am going to have to check out local convents at this rate

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scorpio1 · 04/01/2008 12:46

ignore those men, they are being very disrespectful.

do you know people who know single men? speed dating? local dating sites?

anorak · 04/01/2008 12:47

Better that he told you, even in a bragging way, than for you to go on nursing expectations that your internet chats might turn into something more.

I'm sure there are nice men on the internet, but you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince.

charliecat · 04/01/2008 12:47

Well there was no need at all for him to tell you that Twat.
Ive yet to meet a decent one....

imadimwit · 04/01/2008 12:50

Take fun in knowing "she wont be needing any help any time soon, not after the servicing i gave her" is man speak for I have tiny cock and she faked it to get it over with a bit quicker

TurkeyLurkey · 04/01/2008 12:52

At least he gave you the opportunity to find out what a dickhead he was before you met him.
Look upon it as a blessing in disguise .

I do know friends who have had success on internet dating sites, but agree with Scorpio that its btter to see someone in the flesh..I heard somewhere that you make up your mind whether you fancy someone in 11 seconds of seeing them.

imadimwit · 04/01/2008 12:52

Oops, forgot to change my name back to normal

MAMAZON · 04/01/2008 12:59

oh i know internet dating is just plain naff but babysitters are like gold dust. with DS i have to rely on family members so i have to limit myself.

figured at least with ID i could search a lot more without leaving the home.

IADW - yes i was sat here thinking that he was probably a crap shag and this was his way of making himself feel better.

i wasn't looking for anything more than a meet with him to be honest, he lives too far away. but i had reached the point where i was comfortable enough to actually take the plunge and go on my first date in 10 years .lol

think i was more miffed at the fact that it wil now take me another month or so before i get a night out

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MAMAZON · 04/01/2008 12:59

oh i know internet dating is just plain naff but babysitters are like gold dust. with DS i have to rely on family members so i have to limit myself.

figured at least with ID i could search a lot more without leaving the home.

IADW - yes i was sat here thinking that he was probably a crap shag and this was his way of making himself feel better.

i wasn't looking for anything more than a meet with him to be honest, he lives too far away. but i had reached the point where i was comfortable enough to actually take the plunge and go on my first date in 10 years .lol

think i was more miffed at the fact that it wil now take me another month or so before i get a night out

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MAMAZON · 04/01/2008 12:59

oops

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