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Should I end it because it's too soon?

28 replies

TooMuchDairyMilk · 05/03/2022 22:13

Myself and ex DP split up 4 months ago.
We have 2 children and we're together since 2012. Towards the end he was quite abusive.
Not long after I left I started seeing someone else who I've known a few years.
We've been getting on really well. We've had nights out while ex has had the children, had a couple of hotel stays. It feels very natural and he's been a good confidant. Only my cousin and her partner have met him and she says she can't believe the difference in me, how much happier I seem and how I'm back to my old giggly self. She said that new guy is much easier to talk to and she liked him a lot.
Ex keeps messaging asking if I've slept with anyone. Says he hasn't as he can't just get over me like that?

Should I call it off seen as it is quite quick?

OP posts:
2DogsOnMySofa · 06/03/2022 17:08

Nope, if he's kind and you're happy don't leave.

As for your ex, it's none of his business

TooMuchDairyMilk · 07/03/2022 19:28

Thank you all Thanks

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BoldMove · 07/03/2022 19:35

None of your ex business. I'm sure if he had met someone he would be in like a shot. You owe your ex nothing. You said he was abusive towards the end. He had his chance and blew it.
Enjoy your new relationship.Smile

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